Nobody can be perfect. In other words, everyone has disadvantages and shortcomings. Recently, after comparing myself with others, I found that there is a long distance for me to improve. As a consequence, I want to change some habits or even certain personalities to become the man I want to be.
Here I would like to list some of my disadvantages. In the following days, I will try my best to turn them into my strengths.
1.I am too lazy. I do not like studying, cleaning room, and laundry.
2.I am a little careless. I may spend hours finding something because sometimes I can easily forget where they are.
3.I have no resistance to games and that kind of temptation.
4.I am not very sociable.
5.My ambition cannot exist long enough.
6.I do not have the ability to laugh while facing cameras.
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There are other problems that I dare not write down, and this is another disadvantage.
Fortunately, I have at least one advantage: I have the courage to face the fact and change the situation. With this, I believe the list above can become my motivation rather than the obstacle. As I mentioned in my oral presentation, it is actually the earliest time when you think it’s too late to change something.
The reason why I choose this as my topic is as followed: Recently one of my friends in Singapore always told me that he was very boring. He could hardly tell the reason when I asked why, and everything even play could no longer attract him. Without his words, I am not sure what is bothering him. However, if he is upset about his behaviors and his personalities, I hope this blog can help him to find the courage to face his own disadvantages.
What is gone is gone. Feeling regret for the past is meaningless, and it is the future that makes sense. If you are not satisfied with yourself, list your advantages and try to change yourself. Follow your heart and be the person who you want to be.
I think you are brave enough to choose this topic, and even more brave to look deep into yourself and admit some of your disadvantages. As for this topic, I do agree with you. A man should always make efforts to be the man he want to be. In my opinion, we meat be strong enough to change our disadvantages and maintain our strengths rather than leave our destiny to life. Moreover, I do think with enough efforts and determination, you can succeed!
ReplyDeleteTo list your shortcomings itself is very brave. In my high school, one of my good friends did the same thing as you did. At last, however, he changed nothing. So, I do not want to see the same consequence happening to you. And I believe your stamina. Maybe you can list what you have improved in your last blog. Come on, man!
ReplyDeleteIt is necessary to change some better habits ,but it is also important to remember who you are. Everyone has his or her unique personality. We do not need to change into one perfect type. At least for me, I would not want to be anybody else.
ReplyDeleteHe Yang,I agree with you.The disadvantages you have list are what I also have.When you achieve it, it does not mean that you become another person,because the motivation to change is you real personality.
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