Saturday, 28 April 2012

Blog 8: Slow Down


This Thursday (26th May), Jiangze showed the whole class a video clip of a Korean movie called Wedding Dress in his oral report. It was a very moving and touching movie. I admitted that at that time, I wept quietly reclining in my chair. Some plots of the movie just exactly touched my heart and then I realized the pace of my life was too fast that I almost lost the ability to enjoy and appreciate the beauty of life.
As a student, I have borne, and will continue bearing the duty to deal with all sorts of assignments since the day when I stepped into the campus of my primary school. These days, I am busy with my research report, and after that come blog, essay, reading comprehension practice, preparation for the coming debate, Mathematics homework and revision, GIVE Programme... I have already been drown in by all those things. At times I wonder if I live just for them, but the answer is obviously: “No.”
Thinking that I have spent little time outdoors, I went for a walk with my classmates in a park for relaxation- i.e. to slow down the pace of my life. I really enjoyed throwing myself into the embrace of nature. I could hear the brook babbling over rocks, keeping telling stories one after another. I could smell the aroma of a mixture of grass and mud, which I regarded as the freshest. I could even catch the movement of an iridescent butterfly fluttering past the bushes towards the sky. She must be the best dancer in the world. I was so glad that I was able to discover the joy around me which I usually ignored in daily life.
I also found that I had not talked with my families for quite a long time. With regret that I spent little time chatting with my parents, I phoned home. Believe it or not, the feeling I got when I first recognized my mother’s voice was so great that words fail to describe it. It was a close sense of intimacy between parents and child which cannot be substitute by any other feeling. I felt as if I were leaning on my mother’s shoulder, quietly hearing her instructions on how to take care of myself in daily life. It was only after I left her did I find that mother’s preachment was the most euphonious melody in the world.
Although modern life is monotonous and full of annoying stuff that must be solved before deadline, we should learn how to reduce our pressure a little bit. That is to slow down the pace of our lives. We are used to move very fast, without knowing that how magnificent the sights along the path are. Just put away the heavy task for a while, spend time appreciating the beauty of nature, appreciating families and friends. That’s where the joy of life locates.

6 comments:

  1. Reading your blog is really a process of picking up new words and is surely a touching movie. Actually there are still a lot of moving details which are not included in the video clip, so I strongly recommend you to watch the whole movie.

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  2. Thank you for you beautiful blog. It is nice to know that you were also moved by the movie clips that Jiangze showed us. Those clips are rather moving and touching, and I have to say that it has been a long time since I cried for a film last time. Besides, I am also glad to know that you rang your parents after watching it. Well, as for me, I chat with my dear parents every day through QQ. I would like to know anything that happens around them and they also want to know how my life is in Singapore. Therefore, I never feel too far away from home, as I can get in touch with them easily! (^_^)

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  3. Good blog, Junji. I hope the reason that you haven`t been contacting is not because you had no time. Everything is gathering momentum and speeding up--that`s why you`re feeling the pressure.
    Am glad you took time out to appreciate Nature. Yes, when we`re feeling the stress, we need to slow down otherwise it`s bad for our health. Furthermore we won`t be able to put in our best when our minds are overloaded with work. You all seemed to enjoy Jiangze`s movie clips. must try to watch the movie one day.

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  4. I have to say I really share the same feeling with you. Several weeks ago, I just promised to my roommate that I would walk along the seaside with her every Saturday because I realized that life was speeding up. I just want to cherish every chance to enjoy my life before it goes too fast and becomes out of control. I try all kinds of ways. I play guitar, draw pictures, watch movies. I even try to let Youran teach me how to play piano. I am not escaping from the stress. I am trying to control my life instead of being controlled by other, If I want to try something, I will start right now because I am afraid my passion will go away one day.

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  5. After reading your blog, I feel very warm and relaxed.Actually I am accustomed with moving fast, I am afraid that I will be left behind others if I slow down. So everyday I force myself to do what I don't like to do and live tiredly. Though I know that slowing down is truly very good for us, I cannot try it because I don't know what's the degree that I should slow down which will bring me a kind of insecurity. Maybe in the future, I can plunk the courage to try to slow down. All in all, I am happy to know you have enjoyed yourself from slowing down your pace.

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  6. I really agree with you. Actually, we push ourselves so much in our life that we even forget the real meaning of our life. Though life is not to play games and have fun every day, we should give ourselves opportunities to enjoy the love and natural feelings in our life. That is a complete life for us. Only if we appreciate our life, can we have more energy and motivation to go on and reach the ultimate goal of our life and enjoy the biggest happiness.

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