We are all on the way to the adults. When we were kids, we had a lot of time to play games,quarreling with our friends,acting in pettish.The parents were the supermen or superwomen in our eyes. For that reason,we would do everything we want to do,because we believed that no matter what results it were,our parents could solved them for us. We could sleep sound, walking without thinking anything. We had no or very little pressure. It is really happy.
When we grow up, we become quite busy, and so,we have little time to enjoy ourselves. We won't quarrel with others because we are less likely to express our true feelings. The friends of us are not of that kind. Most of them are only for the benefits. However not all of them are the people like that. We can also have some true friends.
Now our stage are between those two stages. We have our parents, and when we meet troubles, we can also ask help from them,when we feel lonely,we can also tell our feelings to them,when we are totally tired, we can also have a big sleep at home with our parents. However, now we have a lot of pressure, and when we meet troubles, we need to learn to solve it by ourselves. We must learn to take responsibilities for the things we do.
Since we are going to be adults, it is time for us to decide what kind of people we want to be. It is the time to form our own patterns of characteristics. So have a look at different kinds of people,and choose one that you like,and after that make a plan for yourself and do it forever.
Yes, I agree that you all now have to take on new responsibilities. It can be quite a challenge. You have entered another phase in your life. We are all unique in our own way, so we should not have to look around and follow what others are doing.We need to be adaptable to change, thus whatever our plans are, we may need to make changes along the way. Given the right attitude, you should not find it too difficult to adapt. All the best, Daquan!
ReplyDeleteYes, we are in a dilemma of the transition from kids to adults now. When I was a child, I dreamed of growing up as an adults as soon as possible; therefore, I can not go to school every weekday. However, when I have been grown now, I find that there are more unpredictable experiences waiting for me and I am not sure whether I can handle them or not. Whether I like it or not, I have to accept the fact that I have been grown. Thus, I started to refer to others style and find my way.I believe that all of us can manage it in the near future.
ReplyDeleteTo some degree, I agree with you. Since we gradually grow older, we may find that there are so many things which we familiar with become unfamiliar with us, ideally, we want everything never change, but realistically, we cannot control them; even though you compel yourself not to change, the world around you is still changing every day. As we cannot change the situation, we should learn to fit in it; only in this way, can we adjust to this society. Daquan, I can understand your feelings, but I think you can handle this problem well. All the best!
ReplyDeleteIt is very kind of you to realize it, so from what you say, we should feel grateful. As we grow up, we have to face many problems, but that is essential for us to deal with them so that we can grow up. I believe you will do well in the process of growing up. As to friends, I do not think there are many friends for benefits, but true friends are few. I wish you good luck.
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